Sweets shouldn't be feeling jealous of Fisher (really, REALLY shouldn't), he should be asking Daisy what works for her. Although from the sounds of it... that's probably not a problem.
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Bones S05E08
The comparison of the relative merits of quality and quantity was haunting dear Sweets after Fisher shared his Casanovic number of conquests. According to my extensive research on the subject (which could also be described as talking to a few friends and extrapolating), this is a not uncommon problem for serial monogamists. The real fear is that quantity of partners has a direct impact on quality of sex for the current partner. This may manifest as regret that past opportunities were missed, or contemplation of going elsewhere, likely behind the back of one's current partner, to improve one's technical skills. The reality of the situation is that a vast number of different partners, while it may be desirable for men from an evolutionist's standpoint, is not going to directly improve anyone's in-bed manner. There are numerous resources available demonstrating various techniques, but the most efficient and effective way to increase your partner's sexual pleasure is improving communication.