Unfortunately, that is a question I have no good answer for, but it does bear thinking about.
There was one other thing worth mentioning, a Gibbs-ism that put me in quite the reflective state. "She had a choice. That's what makes her a hero." Incredibly poignant, quite true, and again... it bears thinking about. Making the difficult decision can definitely make you a hero. Maybe in the eyes of one person, or maybe in the eyes of the world - the point is that choosing to protect the vulnerable, the choiceless, is what makes a hero.